My father passed away and I decided to go back to my country and to my family for support.
Well, after almost twenty years I went back to Iran with no clear plan. I just knew
that I have to be there for a while to take care of my mother. When I saw my mother
suffering being in the same house where she had lived with my father for more than
fourty years, I thought "somehow, I have to make her forget her husband footprint in that house".
At the other hand I wanted to fill my time and earn money. Therefore I rented another house and
began to demolish our father's house which was now an old building and began preparations
for building an apartment on the same ground.
My nephew was an architect and four of my best friends had the consulting, construction company where I had work for as
software employe many years ago. Two of these friends were masters of construction. At the other hand I had
also learned lot of other engineering skills during my software career. Reading and
understanding structural and architectural drawings and electrical, water, waste and
gas pipelines and installations was absolutely no problem for me. I could also calculate
the material needed for each matterial from drawings, like the amount of cement, steel bars, wires, pipes, etc. needed for the construction of buildings.
The most important point was the self esteem that I had built up during my career. At the other
hand, we (my brother, sister and me) had enough money to end the project. Therefore
it was not a hard decision to make and soon I began my first construction project.
Well, I have to say that this was not anything compareable to any other jobs and projects that I had done before in my life.
This was the most challenging job I had ever done. The way things are done in Europe is
totally different than how they are done in Iran also the mentality of Iranians is
completely different. First I had to adapt to my new environment and change my approch
of doing things. Second I had to change my 9 to 5 working habit. This was not only about finishing a project. It was about 90% of the families capital. No error or fail was permitted.
There were enough days that my working hours exceeded 12 hours a day. Somethimes even in the middle of a night because the land was situated in city center and unloading truck was only at night permited.